The Power of Showing Up: Finding Family in an Age of Disconnect

Feb 3

Ever noticed how much easier it is to binge Netflix than to put on real pants and show up somewhere? In a world where we can work remotely, shop online, and maintain relationships through social media, actually showing up feels almost... old school.

The Loneliness Paradox

Here's the irony: we're more connected than ever, yet loneliness is at an all-time high. We have hundreds of friends online but few people we can call at 2 AM when life falls apart. We're craving real connection, authentic community, and genuine relationships – but we're often too afraid, too busy, or too comfortable in our isolation to do anything about it.

Reimagining Church Family

When you hear the word "church," what comes to mind? A building? A Sunday service? A list of dos and don'ts?

What if church was actually meant to be more like a family reunion than a formal event? (Okay, maybe minus the awkward uncle's questionable potato salad.) What if it was less about perfect attendance and more about perfect belonging?

Small Steps, Big Impact

Here's what's wild about showing up: it doesn't take grand gestures to create meaningful connections. Sometimes it's as simple as:

Grabbing coffee after service with someone new
Joining a small group, even when you don't know anyone
Showing up early to help greet newcomers
Staying late to chat with that person who seems lonely
Simply being present when someone needs support

Real Stories, Real Connection

Take Sarah (not her real name). She spent three Sundays sitting in her car in our parking lot before finally walking in. Now, two years later, she's got a whole crew of people she calls family. Or Mike, who only came to help with the sound system but found himself surrounded by friends who showed up when he lost his job.

These aren't just nice stories – they're reminders that family can start with something as simple as showing up.

The Beauty of Imperfect Community

Here's the thing: the church family isn't perfect. Sometimes, we mess up, sometimes we disagree, and sometimes, it’s awkward. But that's what makes it real.

Real family isn't about perfection – it's about presence. It's about showing up for each other, celebrating wins, sharing burdens, and figuring out life together.

Breaking Down Barriers

Maybe you're thinking: "But I don't know anyone." "I'm not sure I belong." "What if I don't fit in?" "I've been hurt by church before."

We get it. Really, we do. Those feelings are valid and exactly why we're committed to being a different kind of church family. One where:

Your questions are welcome.
Your doubts don't disqualify you.
Your past doesn't define you.
Your presence matters more than your performance.

Starting Your Story

The beautiful thing about family is that everyone has a place. You don't have to have it all figured out. You don't need the right clothes, the right background, or the right beliefs. You just need to show up.

Because here's what we've discovered: when people show up consistently, even in small ways, something magical happens. Strangers become friends. Friends become family. And suddenly, that scary first step turns into a journey you wouldn't trade for anything.

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Ready to experience what church family could look like? Join us at Centerpoint Church in Valrico, Florida, or stream our services live at 11am EST every Sunday. Whether you're church-curious or church-wounded, skeptical or seeking, there's a place for you here.

Want to take that first step? Join us for coffee and conversation after any service. No pressure, no expectations – just real people doing real life together. Ready for a deeper sense of connection? We have small groups starting twice per year–February and August–as well as a variety of short-term groups offered throughout the year. When you’re ready to build relationships, we have plenty of on-ramps for you to meet others and begin to connect.

Because in a world of disconnect, we believe showing up matters. And we'd love to show up for you.